Safety

Safety you can check, not just be promised

Here is exactly what each control does, what we can verify and what we cannot, and the patterns worth recognising early. No app can vouch for a stranger — but it can put the controls where your thumb already is.

In an emergency

If you are in immediate danger, call 112 (India’s emergency number) before you do anything else. For a situation on Fryndo that needs us urgently, email safety@fryndo.com with the profile name and what happened. We read that inbox first.

The controls

What each one actually does

Written plainly, because a safety feature you do not understand is a safety feature you will not use.

Photo verification

A verified rosette means a real person passed a photo check against their profile pictures. It is optional, and it is not transferable.

Fake-profile detection

Signal-based checks on new accounts, plus review of any account that gets reported. One phone number, one account.

Block and report, instantly

Blocking is mutual and takes effect immediately: the match closes, the thread disappears from both sides, and neither of you appears in the other's Discover again.

Abuse detection

Automated checks flag abusive content for human review, and repeat offenders lose their account rather than their reach.

You control the radius

Your precise location never leaves the app as a coordinate a stranger can read — profiles show an approximate distance, not a place.

Leaving is one screen

Delete from the app or from this website and the account closes on the spot — hidden from everyone, signed out everywhere — then the data is erased for good 30 days later.

What we cannot do

We do not run criminal background checks, and we cannot confirm that anyone is single, employed, or telling the truth about their life. A verified rosette means a photo check was passed — it is evidence the person exists, not a character reference. Treat it that way.

Reporting

What happens after you tap report

01

Block, first

Blocking does not wait for us. The match closes, the thread leaves both inboxes, and neither of you appears in the other's Discover again — immediately and in both directions.

02

Then report

Reporting is a separate tap on the same menu. Pick a reason, add a line if you want. The person you report is never told who reported them.

03

A person reviews it

Every report is read by a human, with the reported profile as it looked when you filed it. Safety reports jump the queue.

04

Something happens

Warning, suspension or permanent removal, depending on what happened and what came before. Reports survive account deletion so a removed account cannot quietly return.

How to spot a scam

Romance scams follow a script. Once you have seen it, you cannot unsee it.

  • They want to move to WhatsApp or Telegram in the first few messages.
  • The photos look professional, and there are only two or three of them.
  • They are travelling, working offshore, or otherwise conveniently unable to video call.
  • An emergency appears: a hospital bill, a stuck parcel, a frozen account.
  • There is an investment they want to help you with. Crypto, trading, anything.
  • They ask for a gift card, a UPI transfer, or 'just to hold' money for them.

Meeting in person

Boring advice that works, and costs you nothing to follow.

  • Video call before you meet — inside Fryndo, so you do not have to give out a number.
  • Meet in a public place, at a time you chose, not one you were talked into.
  • Tell a friend where you are going and when you plan to be back.
  • Arrange your own transport, both ways.
  • Keep your drink with you. Leave the moment you want to, without explaining yourself.
  • Never send money to someone you have not met. There is no exception to this one.

The rules everyone on Fryndo agrees to are in the Community Guidelines, and what we hold about you is in the Privacy Policy.

Dating should not feel like a risk assessment

Verified profiles, consent before contact, and controls that work the moment you tap them.